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Adult Bullying

Bullying is a process of emotionally, mentally and psychologically tormenting and destroying the self worth of the target or the victim to induce a sense of superiority and control over the victim, giving the bully a futile sense of ego boost and self esteem. Such people are control freaks who do not value relationships and can destroy them in a fit of rage. They have no morality or self righteousness and are often a subject for negativity and foulplay. Normally, such people end up being ostracized from the society. Having said that in most cases, since having a futile sense of ego, they are extremely image conscious and would ensure that their fake sense of pride and self esteem is intact in whatever way possible.   You can be a subject to bullying as an adult almost everywhere of your life including your workplace, your marriage or other relationships that you share with people in your life. Being a victim of bullying is one of the most hard-hitting yet an invisible and unaddressed f

Relationships

Relationships are our connection with people based on the vagaries of emotions that we share with that particular person. They can be as fickle or as strong as we want them to be, basis the amount of care, love, energy and understanding we invest into it. Our relationship with every other human being revolves around our own expectations and needs out of that particular relation, rather than anything else. No relation is perfect, neither is any human being, it is our acceptance, acknowledgement and understanding that helps nurture and develop a relation. The moment we get into a relationship with pre-determined and pre-fixed thoughts out of that particular relation, we do the biggest dis-service by ensuring that, that particular relation will never be able to blossom, as we do not leave any leeway of thought and any leeway of compromise required to understand and articulate that relation, to truly develop and nurture it into a resplendent one.   Relationships are not constant. They chan