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Self Love

Our life revolves around the basic principles of love and compassion. We are a social human being and perceive and project our dreams and aspirations through the lenses of the people around us and the society.  Somehow during this process of evolution, we inadvertently forget self love. Self love is an extremely vital aspect of one’s existence as it is important to realise that it is your desires, your expectations from life, the reasons for your longevity in life that should define and shape up the life that you want to lead and not based on someone else’s or the society’s whims and fancies. Self love helps you to give direction to your life and the things that you aspire for as an individual. It also gives birth to an extremely important and a residual part of human existence that is Self Esteem. Our self esteem determines how much can we give or take as an individual pertaining to different situations and different aspects of life. Self esteem however must not overshadow...

Old Age Homes & Parents

It takes 9 months of utmost care, pain, love, emotions and above all immense mental and physical sacrifice to bring you into this world by your parents. It takes another 2 years of sacrifice and patience to help you stand and observe the world around you. Yet another 10 years of grinding love and care to help you walk, talk and make you more self-sufficient to be able to understand and acknowledge things on your own. As you get into the adolescence stage a mother and a father gives their heart and soul in your upbringing, not just emotionally but also financially. And finally as you enter the psychological and culturally defined stages of Adulthood, parents stand behind you as your guiding force, ensuring that you achieve the best that is possible. Parent’s contribution in a child’s life is unquantifiable. The struggle and the sacrifice that they go through in making you who you are, is a testimony to the fact that they are next to GODS if not more for all of us. Then comes a sta...

An Ode to my Grandmother

I am a part of you. My thoughts have been shaped by the principles you imbibed in me. I am kindest to the weak and toughest to the punk. Honesty is something that governs my actions, you haven’t taught me to fudge relations, I value people who are straightforward and modest and haven’t learnt to stand double faceted people. I feel blessed to have learnt the values of simplicity and patience. My struggle would not have been sweeter, but for your support. My maturity stems from your steadying touch, my compassion towards life and mankind is a prelude to you. People love me for the person you have made out of me, people adore me for the values you taught me, people look up to me finding a part in me of you. You have taught me to pray, you have taught me to help, you have taught me to be the best I can and yet be the modest of all. I have learnt to stand tall against fear, I have learnt to fight till my last breath. My life that I have seen and yet to see, will be a testament to you. But...

Mental Health

We live in a world where money, fame, success is what determines your status quo. Love, empathy, warmth, compassion, care, solicitude have just become words hidden under the burden of your social status. Depression stems from this very philosophy of life. We as human beings are blinded by the ignanimous fame that never really exists. It is up to us to realise what really has meaning in life, before we or someone we love is a subject to this deadly disease, causing significant amount of mental unrest and subsequently an extremely fragile state of mind leading to SUICIDE. It is important to realise that the society we live in is an extremely miniscule part of our existence and that our eternal existence, without having to depend on opinions and perceptions is what really matters at the end of the day. It is important to realise and introspect for each one of us that our life is equally as important to us, as it is for our loved ones. The barrage of emotional distress that our pass...

"Striving to Turn Back"

Life is not about achieving goals,its not about being rich,its not about imposing yourself on somebody,its not about complains and hatred,its not about having materialistic possessions,its not about sarcasm,its not about competition,its not about jealousy...but Life is all about being a Good Human Being,being simple,being honest,being someone who fears God,being somebody who wants to bring a change,being someone to wants to bring smile on people's face. We all strive very hard to get into Top colleges..Top companies..Top People..We bring attitude in our self, we start believing that we are indispensible..that we are Everything and that Nothing is beyond us, and in the process we forget that there are so many people around us who strive equally hard..who fight like we do,but somehow do not make it..there are so many people around us who are not as privileged as we are..who are not as physically capable as we are..and we turn our backs on them saying that they are small ...

Learn to Live!!!

Happiness is something we all crave for,love is something we all want and respect is something we all should get.But there are times in life when things do not go the way we want them to be,things do not shape as we would have wished.Its very easy to give up,to feel mentally and physically insecure,to loose faith in your abilities,more importantly to loose respect for yourself,to stop laughing and the biggest mistake to stop believing in 'GOD'. The question really is why do we expect so much from ourselves.We all have come with some wonderful talent,but we need to understand the fact that if all our wishes and aspirations would come true as the way we wanted them to be,this life wouldntbe as valuable as it is now. Somewhere down the line we have lost the value of simplicity.We do not value small things that once used to bring smile on our faces.Believe me,there are people who are not as lucky as probably we are,so please bring simplicity back to your world,cause thats the great...

WHEN I MET 'GOD'

I was walking along the sea shore when i saw the sundry waves take a giant shape and leap towards me and I was standing a few yards from them, so I couldnt run, nor could I cry.I looked towards GOD, and asked him "Is thia the ultimate end for me!". GOD asked "You have commuted a journey,is that not enough for you!" I replied "GOD, my life has been a colossus of love, it has blossomed with pain and happiness, but my thaughts have often reverberated and questioned if I had done enough to be called your incarnation. I am dumbstruck . And so GOD, I want to escort myself a little longer." GOD said "Son, you have invested your life to figure out your DIVINE. Do you identify yourself! Confabulate with yourself and dissect your unversed and unspoken mind.You are a sublime child, dismiss your ego.Nobody can incarnate the DIVINE, assemble your senses and interact with your goal, your goal as a child and not as an intensive soul." I replied "I have alw...